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Customer By CSS Email (Thomas Coates) (05/19/2025 01:15 PM)
Dear Investigator Perez,

Thank you for your recent correspondence regarding the above-referenced
matter.

I must respectfully object to several aspects of your letter and the
approach reflected therein:

1. Communication and Pretext
For the record, I have been consistently responsive and available by email
throughout this process. While you may have attempted to reach me by phone
a few times when I was unavailable (such as while driving), I have made it
clear that email is my preferred and most reliable method of communication.
You have had every opportunity to contact me by email, and I have responded
promptly and substantively to all such correspondence.
I must also note that, in many cases, parties attempt to use allegations of
unresponsiveness or lack of communication as a pretext or rationalization
to justify procedural shortcuts or adverse actions. In this case, such a
characterization is wholly inaccurate and unsupported by the record. I
respectfully request that you refrain from making or relying on such
assertions in the future, as they are not factually grounded and should not
be used to minimize or divert from the substantive issues at hand.

2. Attempt to Restrict or Minimize the Record
Your letter references “procedures that govern EEOC’s statutory obligations
at this stage,” and suggests that my submissions “fall outside” those
procedures. I must clarify that every document, motion, and addendum I have
submitted-including my Formal Motion No. 1 for Memorialization, Retaliation
Timeline, and Paradigm-Shifting Addenda-is fully supported by EEOC
regulations (see 29 C.F.R. §§ 1601.15, 1601.18), federal law (42 U.S.C. §
12117(a)), and the EEOC-DOJ-DOL MOU. These filings are not only proper, but
required to preserve the integrity of the administrative record and to
ensure cross-agency and judicial review.

3. Use of Minimizing or Presumptive Language
Your letter employs phrases such as “lack evidence,” “routine performance
discussions,” “unrelated to disability,” “outside jurisdiction,” and
“unlikely that additional investigation will result in a cause finding.”
These are not neutral assessments, but rather conclusory statements
unsupported by the full documentary record I have submitted. I specifically
object to the use of such language to prematurely foreclose further
investigation or to minimize the seriousness of the documented retaliation,
perjury, and executive-level noncompliance at issue.

4. Attempt to Rush or Pressure the Process
Stating that the case “may be dismissed” if I do not respond within 10
days, despite the existence of substantial, ongoing evidence and
cross-agency filings, appears to be an attempt to rush this matter to
closure without proper consideration. The record demonstrates a pattern of
ongoing retaliation, record falsification, and bad faith by the
Respondent-including 48 unsupported assertions in Cox’s position statement,
each of which I have challenged and demanded substantiation for in my
filings.

5. Improper Limitation of Issues
Your letter asserts that “claims unrelated to Title VII or the ADA… cannot
be addressed here.” However, the facts and evidence I have
submitted-including wage, FMLA, and HIPAA violations-are directly relevant
to the pattern of retaliation and bad faith, and are being reviewed by the
DOL, DOJ, and Virginia OSIG as part of a coordinated, systemic
investigation. The EEOC is required to preserve and transmit this record
for cross-agency review.

6. Request for Procedural Integrity and Accountability
I request that you refrain from using the above tactics or language in this
case. It is clear from the record-and the actions of all parties to
date-that this matter cannot be minimized, rushed, or procedurally
foreclosed without risking a denial of due process and cross-agency
accountability. I further request that you confirm the entry of my Formal
Motion No. 1 and all addenda into the permanent record, and that you
transmit these materials to all relevant oversight agencies as required by
law.

7. Notice of Cross-Agency Mirroring
This response, and all related filings, are being mirrored to the U.S.
Department of Labor, U.S. Department of Justice, Virginia Office of the
State Inspector General, and the Office of the Governor of Virginia to
ensure full transparency and independent oversight.

Conclusion:
Please do not attempt to use procedural shortcuts, minimizing language, or
arbitrary deadlines to restrict the record or foreclose my rights in this
matter. The integrity of this process depends on a full, accurate, and
independently reviewable record.

I am prepared to provide any further evidence or clarification as needed
and reserve all rights for further administrative and judicial review.

Respectfully,

/s/ Thomas D. Coates
Thomas D. Coates
tdcoates@gmail.com
(757) 374-3539


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From: ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov>
Date: Mon, May 19, 2025 at 12:49 PM
Subject: RE: [External] Re: [External] Re: Coates v. Cox Communications
12K-2025-00001
To: tdcoates@googlemail.com <tdcoates@googlemail.com>


Mr. Coates,

I am writing in response to the Charge of Discrimination (Charge No.
12K-2025-00001) you filed with the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity
Commission (EEOC).

I have made multiple attempts to speak with you over the phone in regard to
your claim and to attain a verbal or written rebuttal to Respondent’s
position statement. You have instead elected to send multiple documents and
requests that fall outside of the procedures that govern EEOC’s statutory
obligations at this stage in your process. Therefore, I am sending you this
email to advise you of where your case stands as of today.

After a thorough review of your allegations, we respectfully submit that
your claims do not constitute violations of federal anti-discrimination
laws, including Title VII of the Civil Rights Act or the Americans with
Disabilities Act (ADA).

Your claims primarily allege failure to accommodate, discrimination,
harassment, and retaliation related to your disability. However, Cox
Communications Hampton Roads, LLC provided extensive reasonable
accommodations, including six months of job-protected leave, approval to
work from home, a phased return-to-work plan, flexible scheduling, and
additional break times. These accommodations were tailored to your medical
needs as outlined by your healthcare providers. Your employment was
terminated solely due to your failure to return to work after the
expiration of approved leave on December 29, 2024, despite clear
instructions and a grace period extended until January 2, 2025. This
decision was unrelated to your disability or accommodation requests.

Additionally, your allegations of harassment and retaliation lack evidence.
Routine performance discussions and corrective actions addressing your
sales performance and attendance issues occurred prior to your disclosure
of any disability and were consistent with Cox’s standard policies.

Claims unrelated to Title VII or the ADA, such as those involving the
Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) or wage laws, fall outside the EEOC’s
jurisdiction and cannot be addressed here.

Based on our review of the evidence, it is unlikely that additional
investigation will result in a cause finding. However, if you have
additional significant evidence that you believe supports the allegations,
please submit it to me within 10 days of the date on this letter. If we do
not hear from you by May 29, 2025, we may dismiss this case based on the
available evidence. If the case is dismissed, EEOC will upload a Dismissal
and Notice of Rights via the portal which will allow you to pursue claims
further by filing a private lawsuit within ninety (90) days of receipt of
the Notice. You may reach me via this email.







Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

*200 Granby Street, Suite 739*

*Norfolk, VA 23510*

*757-600-4725*

*757- 441-6720* (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov



“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working
hard for something we love is called passion.”
*Simon Sinek*



*From:* Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
*Sent:* Monday, May 19, 2025 12:44 PM
*To:* ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>; NORFGOV <NORFGOV@eeoc.gov>;
crt@usdoj.govosig@osig.virginia.govwhdcomplaints@dol.govwhd.dc@dol.gov;
subpoena@eeoc.gov; INFO <info@eeoc.gov>; FREEDOM OF INFORMATION ACT <
foia@eeoc.gov>
*Subject:* [External] Re: [External] Re: Coates v. Cox Communications
12K-2025-00001







Dear Investigator Perez,

Thank you for your inquiry.

To your question: I am not waiving any rights to submit additional factual
information or evidence. My participation in this process remains active,
and no silence or delay should be construed as acceptance of the current
record or as consent to close or finalize the matter.

Additionally, there are procedural matters and appeals currently pending,
and I have outstanding requests for clarification and acknowledgment from
your office that have not yet been addressed.

For the record, I respectfully clarify the following:

1. Deeming Non-Response as Waiver or Acceptance:
My lack of immediate reply or any delay in communication should not be
interpreted as a waiver of my rights or as acceptance of the record as it
stands.
Do not do this; it is not proper in this situation.
2. Premature Closure or Expedited Determination:
Closing or advancing this matter while procedural questions or appeals
are pending, or without addressing my outstanding requests, would be
improper.
Do not do this; it is not proper in this situation.
3. Drawing Adverse Inferences Based on Timing or Silence:
Any negative inference or procedural consequence based solely on timing
or lack of response, while appeals and procedural issues remain unresolved,
is not appropriate.
Do not do this; it is not proper in this situation.

I again request that you provide responses to my recent procedural
questions, including (but not limited to) confirmation of the status of the
record, the process for supplementing evidence, and acknowledgment of the
mirror filing with oversight agencies.

Thank you for your attention.

Sincerely,
Thomas D. Coates
tdcoates@gmail.com
(757) 374-3539
1. Certification of Service – Letter to Alexander Perez and Charlotte
Burrows

CERTIFICATION OF SERVICE

I, Thomas D. Coates, hereby certify that on this 19th day of May, 2025, a
true and correct copy of the correspondence addressed to Investigator
Alexander Perez and Chair Charlotte Burrows regarding EEOC Charge No.
12K-2025-00001 was served via electronic mail to the following parties:

- Alexander Perez, Investigator, U.S. EEOC (alexander.perez@eeoc.gov)
- Charlotte A. Burrows, Chair, U.S. EEOC (charlotte.burrows@eeoc.gov)
norfolk@eeoc.gov
norfgov@eeoc.gov
subpoena@eeoc.gov
info@eeoc.gov
foia@eeoc.gov
- U.S. Department of Labor, Wage and Hour Division (whdcomplaints@dol.gov
whd.dc@dol.gov)
- U.S. Department of Justice, Civil Rights Division (crt@usdoj.gov)
- Virginia Office of the State Inspector General (osig@osig.virginia.gov)
- [Your own email addresses for record]

I certify under penalty of perjury that the foregoing is true and correct.

/s/ Thomas D. Coates
Thomas D. Coates
tdcoates@gmail.com
(757) 374-3539
Date: May 19, 2025



On Mon, May 19, 2025 at 11:50 AM ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov>
wrote:

Mr. Coates,

Please respond to my specific question by close of business today so I may
move forward with this matter. I am unable to leave this matter idle
without a response from you. Do you plan on submitting any additional
factual information or is your attachment your written rebuttal?

*Failure to respond to my question will be taken as a confirmation that
your rebuttal has been filed and you do not plan on submitting any more
information in regard to this matter by your deadline of May 21, 2025.*



Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

*200 Granby Street, Suite 739*

*Norfolk, VA 23510*

*757-600-4725*

*757- 441-6720* (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov



“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working
hard for something we love is called passion.”
*Simon Sinek*



*From:* Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
*Sent:* Monday, May 19, 2025 11:27 AM
*To:* ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>; NORFGOV <NORFGOV@eeoc.gov>;
norfolk@eeoc.gov; CHARLOTTE BURROWS <CHARLOTTE.BURROWS@EEOC.GOV>
*Cc:* whd@dol.govosig@osig.virginia.govcrt@usdoj.gov; Thomas Coates <
tdcoates@gmail.com>
*Subject:* [External] Re: Coates v. Cox Communications 12K-2025-00001



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Subject: Formal Notice: Stay of Action Required During Appeal – Coates v.
Cox Communications 12K-2025-00001



Dear Investigator Perez,

This is to memorialize the current status of EEOC Charge No. 12K-2025-00001
and to clarify the proper legal and procedural steps required of your
office at this stage.
------------------------------
1. This Matter is Under Formal Appeal – No Action Permitted

Pursuant to 29 C.F.R. § 1601.21 and EEOC Management Directive 110 (MD-110),
Chapter 6, all substantive processing, including communications with the
Respondent, closure of the file, or transmission of any rebuttal or
findings, is stayed pending resolution of my appeal.
You are not authorized to submit, transmit, or otherwise act on any part of
this case until the appeal is fully adjudicated.
------------------------------
2. Your Prior Actions Are Procedurally Improper

Your prior communications-including your denial of my tolling request and
your attempt to move the charge forward despite my explicit written
objections-are contrary to EEOC regulations and due process.
EEOC’s own rules require that:

- No case may be closed or advanced to final determination while an
appeal or motion for review is pending.
- All evidence, addenda, and objections must be preserved and
incorporated into the record.
- The investigator must not communicate with the Respondent or take any
further action except as required by the appeals process.

------------------------------
3. Directives and Required Actions

You are hereby instructed to:

- Cease all communications with Cox Communications and their
counsel regarding
this charge until the appeal is resolved.
- Take no action to close, transmit, or otherwise alter the record except
as required by the appeals process.
- Acknowledge in writing that you will comply with these directives and
confirm that no further action will be taken until the appeal is concluded.

------------------------------
4. Legal Authority and Consequences

Failure to comply with these requirements will constitute a violation of:

- 29 C.F.R. § 1601.21 (stay of proceedings during appeal)
- EEOC Management Directive 110, Chapter 6 (appeals and stays)
- 42 U.S.C. § 2000e-5(b) (duty to investigate and preserve the record)

Any further improper action will result in a formal complaint to the EEOC
Office of Inspector General and a request for supervisory review and
reassignment.
------------------------------
5. Memorializing the Record

This letter and all referenced emails, motions, and addenda are to be
included in the official record for this charge.
You are not to communicate with the Respondent, close the file, or transmit
any findings until the appeal process is complete and all procedural rights
have been observed.
------------------------------

Please confirm receipt and compliance by 5:00 PM ET, May 23, 2025.

Sincerely,
Thomas D. Coates
tdcoates@gmail.com
(757) 374-3539


On Monday, May 19, 2025, ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov> wrote:

Mr. Coates,

Please advise as to whether the attached document shall serve as your
rebuttal for the charge number referenced in the Subject line.

Please respond to this email by May 21, 2025.



Best,



Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

*200 Granby Street, Suite 739
<https://www.google.com/maps/search/200+Granby+Street,+Suite+739+%0D%0A+Norfolk,+VA+23510?entry=gmail&source=g>*

*Norfolk, VA 23510
<https://www.google.com/maps/search/200+Granby+Street,+Suite+739+%0D%0A+Norfolk,+VA+23510?entry=gmail&source=g>*

*757-600-4725*

*757- 441-6720* (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov



“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working
hard for something we love is called passion.”
*Simon Sinek*


Thomas Coates <tdcoates@gmail.com>

Coates v. Cox Communications 12K-2025-00001

ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov>Mon, Apr 14, 2025 at 2:44 PM
To: "tdcoates@googlemail.com" <tdcoates@googlemail.com>

Mr. Coates,

Yes, the inquiry was closed as a duplicate. If you wish to submit a new inquiry, you may do so.

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

From: Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
Sent: Monday, April 14, 2025 2:44 PM
To: ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>
Subject: Re: Coates v. Cox Communications 12K-2025-00001

 

 

 

Subject: Clarification – Inquiry Closure

 

Dear Mr. Perez,

 

Thank you for your message.

 

To be clear, the inquiry you referenced is not a duplicate in any way. It involves separate facts and issues that are not addressed in the existing matter. I respectfully request that it not be closed.

 

If it has already been closed, please notify me immediately so I may take steps to resubmit or open a new one without delay.

 

Thank you again for your time and attention.

 

Sincerely,

Thomas Coates

 

 

 



On Monday, April 14, 2025, ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov> wrote:

Mr. Coates,

Thank you for clarifying. I have closed that inquiry you refer to as duplicate. You should receive notice shortly.

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

From: Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
Sent: Monday, April 14, 2025 1:15 PM
To: ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>
Cc: tdcoates@googlemail.com
Subject: Coates v. Cox Communications 12K-2025-00001

 

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Subject: Clarification on Interview Request

Dear Mr. Perez,

Just to clarify, my earlier message referred to an automated EEOC email regarding a new inquiry I submitted. I replied on April 8 with my availability, but haven’t heard back.

This was not a request for an interview with your office, but with the inquiry group tied to that process.

Thanks for your time,
Thomas Coates


Let me know if 


On Monday, April 14, 2025, ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov> wrote:

Mr. Coates,

I am not understanding what meeting you are referring to. If you would like, you may call me to discuss. I do not believe I have any reason to meet with you at this time.

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

 


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.Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction RE: Re: Thomas Coates vs. Cox Communications Hampton Roads, LLC
Inbox

Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Mon, Apr 14, 12:52 PM
to NORFGOV@eeoc.govALEXANDER
Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction**

Dear Investigator Perez,

Thank you for your continued attention and support regarding my charges against Cox Communications (Charge No.: 12K-2025-00001). I appreciate the EEOC's commitment to investigating matters of discrimination and retaliation in the workplace.

To ensure clarity and facilitate your ongoing investigation, I wish to reiterate that my charges include allegations related to the following five key areas, which fall squarely within the EEOC’s purview:

1.  **Disparate Treatment:** Evidence demonstrates that I have been treated differently from similarly situated employees due to my disability and/or protected activities. This includes denials of reasonable accommodations, restrictions on access to HR systems, and inconsistencies in the application of company policies.
2.  **Failure to Accommodate:** Cox Communications has failed to engage in a good-faith interactive process to identify and implement reasonable accommodations for my disability, in violation of the ADA.
3.  **Retaliation:** I have experienced adverse actions, including changes to performance evaluations and other retaliatory measures, as a direct result of my complaints about discrimination and my cooperation with federal investigations.
4.  **Hostile Work Environment:** I have been subjected to ongoing harassment and a hostile work environment based on my disability and protected activities.
5.  **Wage Discrimination:** There is evidence suggesting that I have not received equal pay or benefits compared to similarly situated employees and due to my disability and protected activities.

I remain committed to providing all necessary documentation and information to support these claims. I am confident that a thorough investigation will reveal violations of federal law and that the EEOC has the expertise and authority to address these issues effectively.

Thank you again for your continued support.

Sincerely,

Thomas Coates

ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Mon, Apr 14, 1:09 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

In your rebuttal, please only address the EEOC jurisdictional issues. Anything else will not be considered by this agency.

 

Thank you.

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Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Apr 14, 2025, 1:23 PM
to ALEXANDERtdcoates@googlemail.com
Dear Mr. Perez,

I understand, and I appreciate the clarification.

Thank you for your support, your expertise, and the important work your agency does in upholding civil rights.

Sincerely,
Thomas Coates
.
.  



.From: Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>

Sent: Thursday, March 13, 2025 3:33 PM
To: ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>
Subject: Re: Coates v. Cox Communications 12K-2025-00001

 

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Subject: RE: EEOC Charge Investigation

Dear Mr. Perez,

Thank you for reaching out regarding my charge. I appreciate your assistance and would be happy to speak with you on the phone next Wednesday. I am generally available anytime between 10:00 AM and 1:00 PM. Please let me know which time works best for you, and if necessary, we can coordinate a different time that suits your schedule.

In the meantime, I may have additional evidence to upload between now and Wednesday. Would you prefer that I continue to upload this evidence to the EEOC portal, or is there another process you would like me to follow?

I look forward to speaking with you and providing any additional information you may need.

Sincerely,

 

Thomas Coates

 

On Thu, Mar 13, 2025 at 3:11PM ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov> wrote:

Mr. Coates,

I have been assigned to investigate your charge referenced above. Please reply to this email and give me a good time to speak with you on the phone next Wednesday. I would like to conduct an interview so that I can get all the facts in order and address the issues that EEOC has jurisdiction over in your charge.

 

I look forward to speaking with you soon.

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

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ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Mar 19, 2025, 12:54 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Email me what you have. I have to reboot my system. Not sure if that is me or your connection. I will follow up with you when I receive a response from Respondent.

I am going to see if they would be willing to entertain an early resolution as discussed.

 

Thanks

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Mar 19, 2025, 1:03 PM
to ALEXANDER
Great Alex,

Would be interested in getting the information which will outfit you for:  "I am going to see if they would be willing to entertain an early resolution as discussed."

I am going to be sending the information to you by replying to this same email thread...Thank you so much and more to follow.  ps.  I follow directions well, so anything that you need, only ask!

Thank you Alex!  For your time and expertise.

Thomas Coates

ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Mar 24, 2025, 3:10 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

Cox has expressed their interest to resolve this matter. I note, not because they believe that a violation of EEOC laws is clear here. Rather, they believe that the mediation process was not conducted in a good faith effort. Respondent has the position that they went into mediation with the intension to negotiate with you on a fair number in regard to the EEOC claim. Any other issues that are not relevant to EEOC were not being considered at that time. Which is why their number was what it was. They had hoped that you would counter a fair number there and the parties could negotiate a fair resolution.

I have been informed that their counter to your 48-50K proposal is 15K. If you want to discuss this over the phone, it would be helpful. I believe you and I spoke over the phone and I shared what you would more than likely get in a settlement here. I still believe that we would be able to resolve this matter for 40K.

Mr. Coates, based on the allegations, I believe that this is a good number. If you are willing to accept 40K, I think we can get this done soon.

Please let me know if 40K in wages is agreeable.

 

 

Alex

Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Mar 24, 2025, 5:29 PM
to ALEXANDER
 

Re: Coates v. Cox Communications – Discovery Prior to Final Negotiation


Dear Alex,

Thank you again for your continued engagement. I’m writing to formally propose a targeted discovery window before concluding any final negotiation.

Rationale for Discovery

Cox’s current offer appears designed to sidestep not only the core EEOC issues but a larger set of interwoven violations—ADA, FMLA, payroll integrity, healthcare continuity, and retaliation among them.

limited discovery phase would clarify key facts before closure and ensure any resolution aligns with the actual scope of harm.

This avoids premature settlement on partial terms that may not even hold up under further scrutiny—by this agency, or others.


Key Discovery Items Requested

  1. Audit trail of all employment record changes during and after STD leave (Workday logs).
  2. STD and payroll disbursement breakdowns including discrepancies or reversals.
  3. Internal communications regarding cancellation of medical coverage on November 22, 2024.
  4. Supervisor directives blocking leave for dependent care, especially from non-managers.
  5. List of all complaints filed by me, with status and resolution trail.
  6. Commission tracking reports and override records related to compensation accuracy.
  7. Any state or federal agency filings where Cox reported altered wage or separation data.
  8. Documents that explain or justify termination despite protected leave under federal law.

Baseline Compensation Context

My base salary was $48,000. Health benefits continuation through COBRA was quoted between $1,200–$1,600/month, placing total value between $62,000–$67,000/year.

This is important not just as compensation—but because these benefits were cut off mid-disability without notice, which speaks directly to retaliation and lack of accommodation.


Opportunity for Resolution

I remain open to a resolution—but only one that is compelling, complete, and reflective of the full circumstances.

If Cox truly seeks resolution, they can demonstrate good faith now by making an offer consistent with my actual harm, not a limited procedural frame.

I trust that your office would be required to report back if an offer appears to preempt accountability for serious conduct.


I appreciate your attention and hope this path forward brings clarity for all parties—while preserving the integrity of the process.

Respectfully,
Thomas D. Coates


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ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Mar 24, 2025, 5:41 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

As I said, this negotiation is in regard to the EEOC claims only. Essentially the ADA claim you have in your charge. There is no discovery window or phase in this investigation. This is an administrative process. You are referring to a litigation process that is much later on if and when you hire an attorney and go to court.

Cox is doing what all mediations do, negotiate. It seems as though they are betting on that your ADA claims will not reach 40K in damages.

If you do not want to proceed with a counter, I am going to terminate settlement options and move to investigating this matter.

Please consider 40K. I have not seen that amount being a result of any cause termination for a simple ADA confidentiality cause finding. You may end up with significantly less at the end of this process later on.

ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Mar 24, 2025, 5:47 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

In two days your charge will be 180 days old. You can request your Right to Sue now if you wish to proceed to court within 90 days. Rather than put the parties through a long investigation, you can expedite seeking damages through the courts if you wish by sending me a request for Right to Sue.

Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Mar 24, 2025, 5:57 PM
to ALEXANDER



To: Alexander Perez
Subject: Response to Offer – Coates v. Cox

Dear Mr. Perez,

Thank you for your continued communication.

After considering Cox’s position and the scope of the evidence now emerging across multiple channels, I am submitting a counteroffer of $60,000 (with taxes included) to resolve the EEOC matter.

This is based not only on the ADA violations described in my charge, but also on the growing body of evidence tied to related agency matters—including events and records that will be introduced under oath at the April 1st VEC hearing. That hearing will include direct testimony regarding accommodations, benefits termination, retaliation, and payroll integrity, and it will trigger a formal record of statements that I will ask to be incorporated into the EEOC’s investigative file.

If we are not able to resolve this matter at this stage, I understand you will proceed to full investigation, and I am fully prepared to support that process. I simply wanted to provide a clear opportunity now to resolve this efficiently, fairly, and with finality.

Please let me know your response.

Sincerely,
Thomas D. Coates


ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Mar 24, 2025, 6:02 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

I am terminating this settlement process. Respondent considered your last offer which was between 48-52K which they declined. It would make no sense for them to agree on your current offer of 60K.

I will release the company’s response to our charge once we receive it. Please be advised that EEOC will only be investigating EEOC matter. We do not have the interest or jurisdiction to even discuss non-jurisdictional issues you raise in your charge.

Again, if you want to request your Right to Sue so that you may address all claims in court and resolve outside of EEOC, please let me know. I will be happy to grant your request.

Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Mar 24, 2025, 6:12 PM
to ALEXANDER

To: Alexander Perez

Subject: Upcoming Summary & Request for Continued Investigation

Dear Mr. Perez,

Thank you for your communication today. While I acknowledge your decision to terminate the current settlement process, I want to make it clear that I will be compiling a comprehensive letter summarizing our discussions, proposals, and the issues raised. This letter will be formally addressed to Cox’s legal counsel and to the EEOC for the case file, with you copied for transparency and continuity.

The letter will outline all relevant matters discussed today, including but not limited to:

  • The scope and valuation of the ADA-related claims;
  • The procedural context surrounding the settlement discussions;
  • The documentation and sworn testimony anticipated in the VEC proceedings on April 1st;
  • The broader pattern of behavior and evidence supporting systemic violations, which I believe fall within EEOC interest and jurisdiction.

In parallel, I would like to formally request that you proceed with a full and thorough EEOC investigation. I am prepared to provide extensive evidence—both documentary and testimonial—to support the charge and demonstrate patterns of conduct relevant to ADA protections and potential retaliation.

Please keep me informed as Cox’s formal response is received. I will ensure that any subsequent communications and materials are appropriately shared and documented in the charge file.



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Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction RE: Re: Thomas Coates vs. Cox Communications Hampton Roads, LLC

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Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Apr 14, 2025, 12:52 PM
to NORFGOV@eeoc.govALEXANDER
Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction**

Dear Investigator Perez,

Thank you for your continued attention and support regarding my charges against Cox Communications (Charge No.: 12K-2025-00001). I appreciate the EEOC's commitment to investigating matters of discrimination and retaliation in the workplace.

To ensure clarity and facilitate your ongoing investigation, I wish to reiterate that my charges include allegations related to the following five key areas, which fall squarely within the EEOC’s purview:

1.  **Disparate Treatment:** Evidence demonstrates that I have been treated differently from similarly situated employees due to my disability and/or protected activities. This includes denials of reasonable accommodations, restrictions on access to HR systems, and inconsistencies in the application of company policies.
2.  **Failure to Accommodate:** Cox Communications has failed to engage in a good-faith interactive process to identify and implement reasonable accommodations for my disability, in violation of the ADA.
3.  **Retaliation:** I have experienced adverse actions, including changes to performance evaluations and other retaliatory measures, as a direct result of my complaints about discrimination and my cooperation with federal investigations.
4.  **Hostile Work Environment:** I have been subjected to ongoing harassment and a hostile work environment based on my disability and protected activities.
5.  **Wage Discrimination:** There is evidence suggesting that I have not received equal pay or benefits compared to similarly situated employees and due to my disability and protected activities.

I remain committed to providing all necessary documentation and information to support these claims. I am confident that a thorough investigation will reveal violations of federal law and that the EEOC has the expertise and authority to address these issues effectively.

Thank you again for your continued support.

Sincerely,

Thomas Coates

ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Apr 14, 2025, 12:54 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

Please do not include any other email addresses in your correspondence to me. As I asked before, I am in the investigator in this matter. Any other email addresses you include may not be monitored during open investigations. As I stated before also, you may upload communications into the portal directly.

Regard this email below, is this your rebuttal? Or am I waiting for more from you?

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

From: Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
Sent: Monday, April 14, 2025 12:53 PM
To: NORFGOV <NORFGOV@eeoc.gov>; ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>
Subject: Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction RE: Re: Thomas Coates vs. Cox Communications Hampton Roads, LLC

 

CAUTION: The sender of this message is external to the EEOC network. Please use care when clicking on links and responding with sensitive information. Forward suspicious emails to phishing@eeoc.gov.

Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Apr 14, 2025, 1:07 PM
to ALEXANDER



Subject: Status of Rebuttal – EEOC Charge

Dear Mr. Perez,

Thank you for your message.

To clarify, the communication you referenced is not my formal rebuttal. I am currently working with several other agencies to ensure that all relevant facts, timelines, and legal considerations are fully aligned before submitting my response.

At this point, I anticipate that my formal rebuttal will be ready for submission by the first or second week of May. I will upload it directly to the EEOC portal at that time, in accordance with your instructions.

Thank you for your continued oversight and patience.

Sincerely,
Thomas Coates


ALEXANDER PEREZ ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov

Apr 14, 2025, 1:09 PM
to tdcoates@googlemail.com

Mr. Coates,

In your rebuttal, please only address the EEOC jurisdictional issues. Anything else will not be considered by this agency.

 

Thank you.

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Thomas - tdcoates@gmail.com

Apr 14, 2025, 1:23 PM
to ALEXANDERtdcoates@googlemail.com
Dear Mr. Perez,

I understand, and I appreciate the clarification.

Thank you for your support, your expertise, and the important work your agency does in upholding civil rights.

Sincerely,
Thomas Coates
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Thomas Coates <tdcoates@gmail.com>

Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction RE: Re: Thomas Coates vs. Cox Communications Hampton Roads, LLC

ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov>Mon, Apr 14, 2025 at 1:09 PM
To: "tdcoates@googlemail.com" <tdcoates@googlemail.com>

Mr. Coates,

In your rebuttal, please only address the EEOC jurisdictional issues. Anything else will not be considered by this agency.

 

Thank you.

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

From: Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
Sent: Monday, April 14, 2025 1:08 PM
To: ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>
Subject: Re: Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction RE: Re: Thomas Coates vs. Cox Communications Hampton Roads, LLC

 

 


Subject: Status of Rebuttal – EEOC Charge

Dear Mr. Perez,

Thank you for your message.

To clarify, the communication you referenced is not my formal rebuttal. I am currently working with several other agencies to ensure that all relevant facts, timelines, and legal considerations are fully aligned before submitting my response.

At this point, I anticipate that my formal rebuttal will be ready for submission by the first or second week of May. I will upload it directly to the EEOC portal at that time, in accordance with your instructions.

Thank you for your continued oversight and patience.

Sincerely,
Thomas Coates


 


On Monday, April 14, 2025, ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@eeoc.gov> wrote:

Mr. Coates,

Please do not include any other email addresses in your correspondence to me. As I asked before, I am in the investigator in this matter. Any other email addresses you include may not be monitored during open investigations. As I stated before also, you may upload communications into the portal directly.

Regard this email below, is this your rebuttal? Or am I waiting for more from you?

 

Alexander Perez, Investigator

U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

Norfolk Local Office

200 Granby Street, Suite 739

Norfolk, VA 23510

757-600-4725 

757- 441-6720 (fax)

Alexander.Perez@EEOC.Gov

 

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
 Simon Sinek

 

From: Thomas - <tdcoates@gmail.com>
Sent: Monday, April 14, 2025 12:53 PM
To: NORFGOV <NORFGOV@eeoc.gov>; ALEXANDER PEREZ <ALEXANDER.PEREZ@EEOC.GOV>
Subject: Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction RE: Re: Thomas Coates vs. Cox Communications Hampton Roads, LLC

 

CAUTION: The sender of this message is external to the EEOC network. Please use care when clicking on links and responding with sensitive information. Forward suspicious emails to phishing@eeoc.gov.

 

Subject: Continued Cooperation and Clarification of Jurisdiction**

 

Dear Investigator Perez,

 

Thank you for your continued attention and support regarding my charges against Cox Communications (Charge No.: 12K-2025-00001). I appreciate the EEOC's commitment to investigating matters of discrimination and retaliation in the workplace.

 

To ensure clarity and facilitate your ongoing investigation, I wish to reiterate that my charges include allegations related to the following five key areas, which fall squarely within the EEOC’s purview:

 

1.  **Disparate Treatment:** Evidence demonstrates that I have been treated differently from similarly situated employees due to my disability and/or protected activities. This includes denials of reasonable accommodations, restrictions on access to HR systems, and inconsistencies in the application of company policies.

2.  **Failure to Accommodate:** Cox Communications has failed to engage in a good-faith interactive process to identify and implement reasonable accommodations for my disability, in violation of the ADA.

3.  **Retaliation:** I have experienced adverse actions, including changes to performance evaluations and other retaliatory measures, as a direct result of my complaints about discrimination and my cooperation with federal investigations.

4.  **Hostile Work Environment:** I have been subjected to ongoing harassment and a hostile work environment based on my disability and protected activities.

5.  **Wage Discrimination:** There is evidence suggesting that I have not received equal pay or benefits compared to similarly situated employees and due to my disability and protected activities.

 

I remain committed to providing all necessary documentation and information to support these claims. I am confident that a thorough investigation will reveal violations of federal law and that the EEOC has the expertise and authority to address these issues effectively.

 

Thank you again for your continued support.

 

Sincerely,

 

Thomas Coates


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